Friday, October 1, 2010

Unholier Than Thou

Digby has an excellent reader on Bryan Fischer, the latest subterranean scuzzbag talk-radio lout Christian Dominionist to be dug up by the Tea Party in an attempt to sound the dog whistle on Obama.  This guy is turning into the new go to religious loudmouth for the winger right.  Here's a sample of his teachings:

The Scriptures clearly instruct wives, "Submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord" (Ephesians 5:22). The word "submit" is comprised of two Greek words, one of which means "under" and the other of which means "to set" or "to arrange." So a wife is instructed to arrange herself, put herself, set herself, under the leadership of her husband in the home.

What's critical to understand here is that there is no verse in the Bible that instructs a husband to see to it that his wife submits to him. This is a matter between a wife and her Lord, not between a wife and her husband. It is not her husband who is asking her to submit, it is God. It is a matter of reverence for Christ rather than for her husband that prompts her to voluntarily arrange herself under her husband's leadership.

It is a gift that she gives to her husband, not a right that he demands. She demonstrates her reverence for Christ by not challenging her husband's leadership in their home but by supporting him and working with him to help him succeed in shaping and directing the life of their marriage and family.

How does a husband submit himself to his wife? As Webster reminds us, husbands are told to "love your wives, as Christ love the church and gave himself up for her" (Ephesians 5:25). That is, he submits himself to his wife by refusing to use his headship simply as an excuse to get his own way, or as a cloak for his own selfishness. He submits himself to his wife by making a determination to use the authority God has given him in his home to give his wife and children what they need rather than to get what he wants.

Marriage is not and can never be a democracy. Somebody has to have the tie-breaking vote when the poll reveals a one-to-one tie. In a Christian marriage, the husband is the tie breaker. The way it is designed to work is that a wife willingly defers to her husband on those rare occasions when they cannot agree on a course of action, and the husband makes the decision that his conscience tells him is best, not for himself, but for her, their marriage, and their home.

If a husband believes before God that the best decision in a given situation is different than the one his wife prefers, he does not order her to follow him, he asks her. The decision is then up to her. He's not forcing her to do anything. He leaves the issue squarely where it belongs, between her and her God.

If you have a problem with a Christian view of marriage, fine. Don't become a Christian then. Nobody is going to make you, again unlike Islam where the choice is convert or die. But if you do decide to follow Christ, his instructions regarding marriage are clear.

And that's fine for a personal belief between a husband and wife, as all faith should be that:  personal.  I'd never buy into any of this myself, but that's my choice as well.  It's when these tenets are espoused by politicians as the preferred religion of the land that this starts to become a problem.  It's when you believe that the politicians running the country should and need to be guided by beliefs like this that I have a problem with.  You get this kind of thing into national politics and the laws I have to follow as an American, and then we have issues.

Do read Digby's article, there's a lot more on Fischer's odious beliefs on Islam, gays, and the occasional but necessary practice of stoning women.

2 comments:

Steve M. said...

More scary stuff on Fischer has been collected by Right Wing Watch.

You can read through it all or just got RWW's Fischer linkdump here.

Zandar said...

Wow, this guy is even worse than I thought. What a chode.

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